Private introductions, by invitation
chatwithme is a private chat platform where every member is screened by a person, and every introduction is made on purpose. No swiping, no public profiles — just a quiet place to talk with someone worth meeting.
Most apps are built to keep you looking. We built chatwithme to help you stop. Every member is met by a real person before they join, every introduction is chosen with care, and every conversation happens somewhere quiet — away from counters, feeds and the endless next.
— The chatwithme team
There's no sign-up form on this site, and that's deliberate. Every member starts the same way: by writing to us.
Send a short note to admin@chatwithme.cc. A few lines about who you are and what you're hoping to find is plenty — no essays, no headshots required.
A brief, friendly conversation with our team, plus identity verification. We're checking that you're real, serious and kind — not whether you're impressive on paper.
If it's a good fit, we'll walk you through membership and arrange payment. Your fee funds the screening and keeps the platform free of ads and data brokers.
We email you a personal access link. That's your way in — there's no public login page to find, and no password to forget.
We introduce you to people we believe you'll genuinely want to talk to, one at a time, with a short note on why. Then the conversation is yours.
Each introduction comes with a short note from our team explaining why we think you two should talk — the things you have in common, and the things you'll probably argue about.
You can accept, ask us a question first, or kindly pass. Either person can do the same. Nobody is ever shown to you as a list.
Mara, meet Theo.
We've spoken to you both, and we have a good feeling about this one. Here's why:
— Lena, chatwithme
You won't scroll through hundreds of faces. You'll meet one person at a time, chosen by people who have actually spoken to you both.
Your profile is only visible to the people you're introduced to. Nothing is searchable, indexed or public.
Every member is verified and spoken to before they join. No bots, no fake profiles, no one pretending.
No read receipts, no online status, no streaks. Reply when you have something to say. Pause whenever life gets busy.
If a conversation isn't going anywhere, close it with a respectful note in one tap. Everyone deserves an answer.
Our team reads every application, makes every introduction and answers every message. If something feels off, you talk to a person — not a help-centre article.
We keep chatwithme small on purpose. That means we say no sometimes — and it means everyone you meet here has been through the same process you have.
Membership is a paid service. Fees are explained personally once your screening is complete, so you'll only ever be asked to pay once we both agree it's a good fit.
Start with an emailFees are shared after screening.
Anything we haven't covered? Write to admin@chatwithme.cc and a member of the team will reply personally.
Your personal access link was sent to you by email. Open it on the device you'd like to use and you'll be signed in directly. If you can't find it, search your inbox and spam folder for “chatwithme”, or write to us and we'll resend it.
Because open sign-up is how other platforms fill up with bots, scammers and people who aren't really looking. Every member is spoken to first. It's slower, and that's the point.
A short conversation with our team about you and what you're looking for, followed by identity verification. It usually takes a few days from your first email. We'll tell you clearly whether it's a fit.
Screening people properly and making thoughtful introductions takes real time from real people. Charging a membership fee means we never need ads or to sell your data — and it means everyone here is serious.
Only the people you're introduced to, and only after the introduction is made. Your profile isn't searchable inside the platform, and nothing about you is public on the web.
Pass kindly, or tell us why — we read every piece of feedback and use it to make the next introduction better. If anything ever feels unsafe, our team will step in immediately.